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Kids and Socializing Online

kids-socializing-onlineBy: Andrea Dillon 

We live in a time of technology, and it has embedded itself into our everyday lives. With no surprise, our children are quickly becoming masters of these devices and often understand them more than we ever could begin to. That is good because they will need to understand and use technology in the future. However,  this also has downfalls as technology can lead to e unsafe aspects for our children. 

Homeschool parents are not new to the online world. Many of us have been using the internet for a while. We use it to find resources, reach out to others, and learn ourselves, but how do we transfer what we have learned over the years to our children? How can we help our children safely use the internet to socialize online

 

What is virtual socialization? 

Virtual socialization is a conversation that happens over devices instead of face-to-face. While we are more aware of this idea now, it has been going on for many years. We have been communicating remotely since the 1800s via telegraph then followed by telephones, two-way radios, cell phones, and now the internet through various apps, gaming systems, and video chatting programs. 

For homeschooling, many families use virtual socialization to connect to other homeschooling families near and far. This can be in the form of homeschool groups online, private servers set up for chatting and playing games, video conferencing for fun, or classes online. While most of these are relatively safe to start with, it is essential to discuss the internet and internet safety before opening this world up for your child to use. 

 

How do I talk to my child about the internet? 

The internet is a wild, weird world. There are recipes, news articles, cat videos, shopping, games, chat rooms…so much stuff that it can be overwhelming for adults, let alone children. One of the biggest challenges of a parent today is to explain the internet to children. 

What is the internet? Webster defines it as “an electronic communications network that connects computer networks and organizational computer facilities around the world,” but that doesn’t make a lot of sense to me, so I know it won’t make sense to my children. I explain the internet as an electronic world.  Ralph Breaks the Internet is a good overview to share with your kids. There is a lot of good on the internet. But just like the real world, there is a lot to be wary of as well. So we have to be cautious about where we go, what we do, and who we trust. 

 

How can I explain internet safety to my child

A lot of the same real-life guidelines you may have already taught your children can also be applied to internet socialization safety. 

  1. Don’t give out personal information. You don’t tell strangers at the park your address, and you don’t tell strangers online your address either. kids-socializing-online
  2. Trust your gut! If you don’t feel comfortable talking to someone, that is okay. Our gut feelings are there for a reason, and you can absolutely shut down and walk away (log out) if you don’t feel comfortable. 
  3. Be careful what you share. You don’t go and tell everyone you meet everything in real life, so you don’t want to do that online as well. Being online also has the downfall of everything being saved. So all those pictures and chats can be spread to more than your intended recipient. If it isn’t something you would want to say or show to everyone in the world, then don’t say or show it online. 
  4. Don’t follow strangers. Just like you don’t get into the van for candy or follow the stranger looking for their lost dog in the real world, you don’t follow the stranger online either. Don’t download things or follow links to other places that strangers send you without your parent’s permission. 
  5. Never share your passwords. Think of your passwords as the key to your house. They are special and are only to be used by specific people. We wouldn’t give our house key to just anyone, so we don’t share our passwords out either.
  6. Manners count! I’m not necessarily talking about please and thank you, though those are always good. Remember that just because you aren’t physically with the person on the other end of the screen doesn’t give you permission to say hurtful things.
  7. Talk to your parents. If you ever feel unsure about anything online, talk to your parents.

 

Other ways to protect your child online:

Talking to your children and knowing what they are doing online is always the best way to protect them; however, you do have tools available out there to help. 

  • Google offers Google Family Link that can help you set rules and protections which let them navigate the internet world safely. This program can help with Chromebooks, cell phones, and computers using the Chrome browser. 

 

  • Microsoft offers Microsoft Family that can help protect and guide your children on windows powered devices as well as the gaming system Xbox. 

 

  • Apple offers built-in tools to help you monitor and protect your children while they are using any Apple devices. 

The above tools are free to use with those specific devices. However, there are a multitude of free and paid options for parental control and technology guidance for you to pick from to help protect your children as they navigate the online world. 

 

 

The internet can be a fantastic tool for adults and children alike to learn, socialize, and play. Knowing how to help your children use it safely is vital. Talk to your children about these internet socialization guidelines and set up some tools to help them navigate the internet safely, and you will be ready to go! 

 

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